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The Importance of Your Community and the People You Surround Yourself with

February 21, 2020 by Alison Leave a Comment

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When it comes to living your best life, and engaging in a proper self-care routine, it’s easy to get caught up in thinking exclusively of the things that are directly connected to your own immediate actions.

Of course, it’s a good idea to focus first and foremost on the things you can do to shape your circumstances. But it’s important to realise that the environments you choose to put yourself in, and the people you choose to surround yourself with, will have a major impact on how things turn out for you, as well. 

Whether you are searching the web for things like memory care facility near me, or are growing skeptical of a particular group of your friends, we all have a sense on some level that the communities we surround ourselves with matter.

Here are a few reasons why they matter:

You inevitably pick up behaviors and perspectives from the people you surround yourself with.

No lie. Whether you think you do or not, you inevitably pick up behaviors and perspectives from the people you surround yourself with – at least to some degree.

If you have a friend circle, or a peer group, who routinely act in ways that you don’t like and don’t approve of, that’s a sign that you should consider surrounding yourself with different people. Because, a lot of the way we interact socially is subconscious, and we all tend to pick up certain behavioral cues from the people around us.

Even if you openly disagree with the people around you about various things, you may still end up picking up certain quirks from them that you’d rather have avoided. For example, making unflattering comments about others behind their back.

We are all social creatures, and on some level we always try to conform ourselves to the groups we are a part of.

This point is quite similar to the last one, but different in some important ways. While it’s one thing to say that we all tend to pick up certain behaviors and viewpoints from the people we surround ourselves with, it’s also worth noting that we are all social creatures, and so on some level always try to conform ourselves to the groups we are a part of, more generally.

No one likes being socially alienated, which means that you are more likely to act in certain ways if those actions are in alignment with the expectations and values of the groups you are a part of. For this reason, it’s a good idea to join groups with positive expectations, such as with regards to things like honesty and fitness.

The people you surround yourself with will have a lot to do with the boundaries and expectations you place on yourself.

When you’re by yourself and are figuring out the right way and the wrong way to behave in a particular situation, you will, of course, consult your conscience – that little voice that tells you whether you are on the right track or not.

The thing is, the people you surround yourself with will have a lot to do with the boundaries and expectations you place on yourself. In other words, they will inform the values that then become embedded in your conscience. If you’re part of a community of people who drinks and smokes heavily, but you drink and smoke just a bit less than all your peers, you might feel like you’re doing just fine, when in reality you aren’t. At the end of the day, a small circle is not a bad thing.

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